Online dating has become increasingly popular in recent years, and it can be a great way to meet new people and potentially find a lifelong partner. However, as Christians, it’s important to approach online dating from a biblical perspective and seek God’s guidance throughout the process. Here are some tips on how to start off your online dating journey as a Christian.
Songs of Solomon 4: 7 “You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you.” Be confident and comfortable in who you are and the one who appreciates you for who you are will find you.
Pray for guidance and wisdom
Before you start your online dating journey, take some time to pray for guidance and wisdom. Ask God to lead you to the right person and help you make wise decisions throughout the process. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Set clear boundaries
It’s important to set clear boundaries when it comes to online dating. Decide what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not comfortable with, and communicate those boundaries to your potential matches. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says, “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.”
Be honest and genuine
Honesty and genuineness are key when it comes to online dating. Don’t try to be someone you’re not, and don’t misrepresent yourself in any way. Proverbs 11:3 says, “The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.”
Present yourself appropriately
Pay attention to how you present yourself! There is a saying that “you are addressed how you are dressed.” If you are seriously looking for a life partner, you should understand that most people coming online are looking for some form of security and assurance and the fastest way to make an impression is through your profile picture. Take time to invest in good pictures, preferably, pictures that show your face clearly. Fill out your profile without exaggerating yourself or your achievements. Songs of Solomon 4: 7 “You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you.” Be confident and comfortable in who you are and the one who appreciates you for who you are will find you.
Prioritize your relationship with God
As a Christian, your relationship with God should always be your top priority. Make sure that you’re spending time in prayer and reading the Bible regularly, even as you pursue a potential relationship. Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
Take things slow
It’s important to take things slow and not rush into anything when it comes to online dating. Get to know the person you’re talking to before you decide to meet up in person, and don’t feel pressured to move too quickly. Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.”
In conclusion, it is important to note that you will never again get back these years as a single person so don’t waste it. This period is perhaps the most important time to invest in yourself. Once you become responsible for other people like your spouse and children, it becomes even more difficult to prioritize those dreams you have for yourself. You should also remember that you attract the kind of energy you give off yourself. Be the best version of yourself, give positive vibes always and surround yourself with great people.
By praying for guidance, setting clear boundaries, being honest and genuine, prioritizing your relationship with God, living your best life and taking things slow, you can start off your online dating journey on the right foot.